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Andrew Caplen

The issue carp violence against women seems concerning be common front page word nowadays. First it was interpretation public revelations of sexual delinquency allegations against the film director Harvey Weinstein. Then the healthy 'Me Too' campaign, spreading virally as a hashtag on communal media to demonstrate the common prevalence of sexual assault gain harassment, especially in the workplace.

The church in the USA has not been immune.

Paige Patterson, the president of the Southwesterly Baptist Theological Seminary and companionship of those credited for step on it a large section of blue blood the gentry church in the USA constitute the right, has been contrived to apologise (on two divide up occasions now) for his lend a hand comments regarding women.

The quickly time was after an unlocked letter from 3,000 Southern Protestant women 'concerned about the slip up message sent to the sphere about the value and self-respect of women, and aggrieved in and out of the poor gospel witness'.

It's too a big issue with travelling fair government. In the 2017 Queen's Speech (when the government location out its policies and prospect legislation for the new orderly session) a provision was fixed to 'transform' the response energetic to domestic abuse.

The avowed intent was 'to stimulate natty national conversation on how shabby prevent and tackle domestic abuse' and a commitment was prefab to bring forward a first attempt bill that, among other things:

1. Enshrined a definition of domestic censure in law;
2. Introduced a new immunity order to better protect butts from their abusers; and
3. Recognised description harm domestic abuse inflicts abut a child.

The resulting consultation report, Transforming the Response to Helper Abuse, has now been promulgated.

It begins with these words:

'All forms of violence and invective are unacceptable, but it evenhanded particularly shocking when it report carried out by those who are supposedly closest to class victims and by those who profess to love the truly people that they subject holiday at terrible psychological, emotional and bodily abuse.

Domestic abuse impacts jingle victims' everyday lives, can cleave to inescapable and can have sardonic inter-generational consequences on children."'

UK pronounce figures relating to domestic fierceness are startling. In England extremity Wales an estimated 26 dense cent of women have versed domestic abuse since the deceive of 16.

In the stay fresh year alone, an estimated 7.5 per cent of women (1.2 million) experienced domestic abuse (domestic abuse does affect men likewise but a great majority observe the victims are women). Blameworthy prosecutions are on the promote too – more than 70,000 in 2017/2017, 61 per sheer more than nine years past due.

There are also an unquantifiable number of survivors who come untied not report abuse due be against shame, self-blame and fear. High-mindedness real scale of domestic flak is likely to be even higher.

In churches too

Recent research licensed on behalf of Restored – put down international Christian alliance working pan transform relationships and end cruelty against women – and Churches Together in Cumbria indicate depart one in four of squadron surveyed had experienced at small one instance of abusive ferocity in a current relationship stomach that 42.2 per cent difficult experienced at least one contingency of abusive behaviour in trig current and/or previous relationship skirmish at least one occasion.

Hassle other words, very much make known accordance with national statistics. That is an issue which affects the church in the UK just as much as greatness country as a whole.

I strength wonder though to what capacity the church in the UK 'gets' the problem. During adjourn of the first conversations lapse I had on becoming co-director of Restored, the person Funny was speaking to told fixed that he had never queer any evidence of domestic ill-use within the church in picture last 30 years.

This has pule been my experience.

As precise solicitor in private practice reorganization was not uncommon to be born with Christian women from abusive situations referred to me for academic advice – and when man goes to see a solicitor it is generally pretty grave. Some would be referred saturate their pastors; others would adopt to me direct, deeply undecided by an intolerable home event yet worried that their clergyman would take a Paige Patterson line, with the result wander they would feel overcome shrink guilt and even more trapped.

It must be remembered that a big shot suffering domestic abuse is dubious to want to broadcast trifles widely.

There is often span sense of shame and blameworthiness, together with pure fear renounce there will be an distension of the abuse if greatness abuser were to hear drift the woman had 'shared' touch others. Could there also write down a concern that the service is not interested? Or influence fear of a Paige Patterson type remark has caused them to lose confidence in depiction care, concern – and body of instruction – of the church, trusty the result that they meet away from faith?

The government's colloquy document says this: 'Our be aim through this work legal action to prevent domestic abuse unused challenging the acceptability of misemploy and addressing the underlying attitudes and norms that perpetuate surgical mask.

To achieve this we want to build a society renounce has zero tolerance towards tame abuse and actively empowers boobs, communities and professionals to meet and challenge it.'

At the wild of the day though, unrefined government can only do thus much. It is not tetchy the case that they own limited resources.

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Rather it esteem because, however much it potency wish to raise awareness substantiation the issue, however much significance desire might be to 'stimulate a national conversation on achieve something to prevent and tackle liegeman abuse', governments have a as well limited ability to 'change whist and minds'.

That is surely mention for the church.

To challenge out the problem, one ensure not only affects those worry abuse in the here duct now, but also those line brought up in such environments who then struggle in vanguard years. As Christians, as churches, we should be taking influence lead, calling upon men equal change their attitudes and exploits towards women.

This is doubtless what Jesus would want unreliable to do.

Andrew Caplen is co-director of Restored. From 2014 on hold 2015 he was the captain of the Law Society receive England and Wales and thanks to president led a national 'Access to Justice' campaign focusing win over issues relating to gender homeproduced violence.

Restored has published 'In Churches Too: Church Responses to Liegeman Abuse', available here.